About me…

I am a Somatic Sexologist and, from Summer 2026, will also be qualified as a Person-Centred Counsellor.

I specialise in working with survivors of sexual assault and the LGBTQIA+ community, offering affirming, trauma-informed, anti-oppressive therapy.

I support people navigating shame, self-trust, intimacy, sexuality, identity, and relationship change.

This includes people exploring gender or sexuality, kink, fetish, relationship diversity, and consensual non-monogamy, as well as those experiencing grief connected to identity shifts, relationships, sexuality, or the loss of parts of themselves through shame, trauma, or conditioning.

My work supports people who want to feel safer in themselves, clearer in their boundaries, and more connected to who they truly are.

You might recognise yourself here:

  • You are looking for affirming, inclusive therapy

  • You experienced sexual assault either as a child or adult and are looking for trauma-informed therapy

  • You feel disconnected from your body, desires, sexuality, or sense of self

  • You experience shame around pleasure, fantasy, kink, or what you want sexually or relationally

  • You freeze, fawn, dissociate, or emotionally leave yourself during intimacy or sex

  • You struggle to trust your body, your boundaries, or your own needs

  • You’re questioning your gender, sexuality, relationship patterns, or identity

  • You’re coming out later in life, or navigating the grief and uncertainty that can come with that

  • You feel trapped between who you’ve been and who you may be becoming

  • You’ve spent years adapting to survive, and no longer know what feels authentic to you

  • You appear functional externally, while internally feeling numb, disconnected, overwhelmed, or emotionally shut down

  • You want to feel more connected, embodied, honest, and free in the way you relate to yourself and others

My approach

My approach is gentle, grounded, relational, and consent-led. There’s no pressure to perform, fix yourself, or speak about anything before you’re ready. We work at your pace, exploring both your emotional world and your embodied experience, because trauma is not only something we think about, but something we can carry emotionally and physically too.

In sessions, we may explore:

  • How trauma, shame, or conditioning have shaped your relationships, boundaries, self-trust, and erotic identity

  • Why intimacy, sexuality, desire, or connection can feel complicated, unsafe, overwhelming, or disconnected

  • How shutdown, dissociation, people-pleasing, anxiety, numbness, or anger may have become protective responses

  • Reconnecting with parts of yourself that may have felt unsafe, suppressed, shameful, or disconnected for a long time

  • Finding a relationship with yourself that feels steadier, kinder, more authentic, and more congruent with who you truly are

Clients often tell me they feel able to exhale, slow down, and meet themselves more honestly in our work together.

This process asks for honesty, courage, and compassion towards yourself.

Therapy can’t remove the difficulty of change, but it can create space to move through it with more support, clarity, and self-trust.

I won’t force your process or rush your pace, but I will support you in meeting yourself more honestly.

My training and professional standards

I work within a trauma-informed ethical framework and am fully insured.

I am recognised as a trainee Counsellor by the BACP and am currently completing supervised clinical training in Person-Centred Counselling, due to qualify in 2026. I am also a member of the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers.

Selected additional training includes:

  • Suicide Prevention (Grassroots)

  • Wheel of Consent training

  • Equality, Diversity and Inclusion CPD

  • Working with Neurodiversity CPD

  • Polyvagal-informed practice

A note on inclusivity

My practice is LGBTQIA+ positive, gender-affirming, anti-oppressive, and non-judgemental.

I work with people across many relationship dynamics, including consensual non-monogamy, and welcome clients exploring kink, fetish, sexuality, gender, identity, intimacy, and relational diversity.

I have experience supporting trans and non-binary clients, survivors of sexual trauma, and people navigating shame, grief, dissociation, self-trust, and suicidal ideation.

If you’re looking for a queer-affirming, trauma-informed therapist in the UK who can hold conversations around sexuality, identity, intimacy, shame, grief, and relational complexity with warmth, honesty, and care, you’re welcome here.

In Addition

Alongside my therapeutic work, I also have a long-standing personal interest in spirituality, yoga, meditation, and energy-based practices.

I am qualified as a Level 4 Yoga Teacher and have additional training in Reiki and Theta Healing. These practices have shaped my understanding of embodiment, self-awareness, nervous system regulation, and the relationship between emotional and energetic experience.

For clients who are already aligned with these perspectives, there may occasionally be space within the work to explore intuition, spirituality, symbolism, meaning-making, or broader questions of connection and self-understanding, always consensually and within clear therapeutic boundaries.

These elements are optional and are not part of Person-Centred Counselling or clinical therapeutic practice.